I am ALL about establishing rules and routines for my family. And as of recently, we have begun to embark on the ever infamous two year old stage of "mine" and "no!" I had a late bloomer and thought I would be one of those lucky moms who bypassed this wonderful stage. Do those moms even exist? Well, the "mines" and "no-no's" have hit our home and I am ready to hit this stage head on! One of my favorite resources full of articles, advice, and help is the
Super Nanny website. It really is absolutely wonderful and I reference it quite often. It has helped me journey through many stages and milestones!

I won't go through all of the nitty gritty of what I am doing in our home to fight off this difficult stage but I will share a few ideas that I am beginning to implement. One is posting some very basic rules and expectations I have for certain activities that lead to problems. One is mealtime! I want my little guy to sit in his chair nicely, use his manners, begin to use utensils properly, try a bite of what is given to him, and clean up when done! These rules are posted near our kitchen table for easy reference and I point them out constantly.

Another problem "activity" we have now come across is playtime. Because my baby girl is now sitting up and grabbing everything...big brother is becoming very possessive of his toys and the word "mine" is used quite often! So, I have created a set of rules for playtime also, to encourage sharing, manners, and help with clean-up. These are referenced quite a bit also! My next goal is to create a food rewards chart with stickers to encourage trying foods in all the food groups (mainly vegetables)! Have fun creating some rules and routines around your home to encourage the kind of behavior you want to see!
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